Sha-Sha's Home Sweet Home Contest Giveaway

Welcome !! Welcome !!
Welcome to my very 1st Giveaway Contest :)

It's really easy to join.
All you have to do is BLOG about this contest.
Pls use only the title 'Sha-Sha's Home Sweet Home Contest Giveaway' (others will be disqualified).
In your blog, mention about this contest and link.
Oh and add our banner to your sidebar too ok? Thanks.

Here's the slightly tricky part....
I would like you to recommend me places for me to SHOP ONLINE for HOME STUFF.
That would mean anything about HOME.
Be it simple kitchen stuff, home decorations, curtains, bedsheets, food, and more.
Pls add the links in your blog entry ok?

You see, am moving home very very soon.
And being a SAHM, I find it hard to go out and shop.
So I always resort to shopping ONLINE.

So the winner will be based on total numbers of shopping links recommended.
Also another winner will be chosen at RANDOM.
Also the MOST INTERESTING link as well :)
So that's a minimum of 3 winners.
More winners will be chosen depending on the response.
I can always choose more. So make me happy and I'll give out more prizes !!! Hahaha.


That's it.
No need to be my follower.
No need to add me to your bloglist.
Basically, I want SHOPING LINKS !!!
Preferably in Malaysia.
If you have any overseas links, sure as long as they accept Paypal and post to Msia :)

Just leave your comment here with your blog entry link ok :)

So hurry !!
Will load the prizes to be won here.
Trust me, the prizes will be something really nice :)

HINT : Prizes will be from Victoria's Secret and maybe GUESS.
Who knows????

Deadline will be 7th Nov 2009!!

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Sha-sha akan berpindah ke rumah baru. (Or moved oredi??)
Disebabkan Sha-sha adalah SAHM she prefer online shopping to get her home stuff. (How i wish i could be SAHM instead of working mom..! Lucky u.) So sha-sha perlukan banyak333 link untuk shopping. Smart lady i guess. Dari contest giveaway ni aku rasa sha-sha boleh dapat banyak link. Sha-sha nak online shop yang jual home stuff ok. Aku rasa sha-sha ni suka home deco. Am i rite? Banyak btol blog yang jual home deco stuff dalam bloglist sha-sha. Aku pon tumpang godek2 la. Kalau betul la sha-sha, we share the same interest. But i'm not dat creative person. Aku cuma suka tengok umah cantik. Pastu jeles apesal umah aku tak cantik camtu. Nak umah cantik camtu gak. Hahaa.. ok. out of topic.

Mula2 nak recommend jundeco sticker. Tapi tengok2 sha-sha pon da follow jundeco. Siap dah join contest lagi! So i recommend link lain la.

1st i recommend jurra's blog. Jurra ni suka menjahit. So u boleh suruh jurra jahit apa2 pon. She oso expert in quilting. So u can order custom made blanket for your lil one!!

2ndly, http://jommainkutu.blogspot.com/
Macam2 ada kat sini.

Lain2 website dari overseas.

http://www.pinklovesbrown.com

Pinklovebrown ni base kat US kalau tak silap. Own by Nicole. Nice online shop. Tapi tak sure dia accept paypal ke tak. I love to share this web with u because i love to cuci mata here. Nicole blog oso nice. It's really inspire me on home deco. Don forget to hit the 'transforming the so-so' at the sidebar when u visit her blog. Worth it!

Apa la prob aku nih????? Part 2

Hari tu kan aku fenin berhari2.. (HERE)
Guess wat?? I was diagnosed to have astigmatism!!!
Bunyi macam dasat gler kan. Tapi tak de pape pon =p
It is juz an optical defect. Not a serious defect of course.

Astigmatism = optical defect in which vision is blurred due to the inability of the optics of the eye to focus a point object into a sharp focused image on the retina -Wikipedia-

Petang tu aku pon pi la kedai spec untuk check mata aku after suggested by doc kt klinik aku. The optician cakap mata aku ni terlalu letih untuk wat keje yg perlukan tumpuan macam membaca or ngadap computer. So dier suggest aku wat spec la. Then aku tanya la. Kalo wat spec fenin aku ni akan hilang tak? Dia cakap mungkin. But it takes time. Da tgk2 la spec yg ada kt kedai tu. Banyak gak try macam2 jenis frame. Tapi end up aku cakap later la aku datang lagi (mesti dia bengang jek.. ahaks). Well.. jangan salahkan aku yer miss optician. Tak de satu pon design kt ctu yg aku berkenan! Terus jek shoot balik umah.

Masa tengah pam susu dalam paler ni tak habes2 fikir. Btol ke apa yg optician tu cakap. Untuk clear up everything aku decide nak dapatkan 2nd opinion pasal aku nyer condition ni. Lepas jek pam aku round2 pekan kangar yg tak besar mana tu. Staf aku cakap depan mahkamah ada satu kedai spec. Tengok2 tutup plak. Round lagik cari. Pastu terjupela satu kedai ni dekat ngn kedai Anakku. Lagi kecik dari kedai yang 1st aku pegi tu. Rasa berbelah bagi plak nak masuk. Takut keciwa ngn explanation dier. (I need a strong explanation kay..) Tapi aku masuk gak. Da sampai kan. Aku cakap la nak check mata. Malay girl ni tanya la pnah check kat cni ke tak. Dier tanya gak pakai spec ke tak. Mestilah tak pnah. (I used to have a very clear vision before. Sekarang tidak lagi!!) Pastu budak tu siap minta IC lagi untuk registration. Biar btol??

Mata aku di check oleh sorang chinese lady ni. Macam besa la. Guna mesin yang serupa jek macam kedai yg 1st aku pi tu. Tak pe2. Yg penting explanation dier nanti. Ingatkan da habis. Tengok2 check kat mesin lain plak. Mesin ni lagik detail. Dier suh baca huruf kt slaid yg betukar2. Ada gk slaid huruf atas background merah n hijau. Macam nak test buta warna plak. Hahaaa.. Pas sesi test mengetest selesai dia pon explain la. Time ni la aku blajar vocab baru. ASTIGMATISM! Ha?? Pardon? Apa tu?? Bler dier cakap fatigue eyes baru paham. Explanation yg lain sama jek macam 1st optician tu. Dia kata nak buat spec boleh tak nak buat pon bleh. Tapi dia recommend suh buat tapi tak payah pakai all the time. Pakai untuk reading, driving and computing jek. Nak buat sekarang ok nak buat lenkali pon x pe. Yg penting, aku puas hati ngn explanation dier. Lagi padat dan konkrit kay walopon intipati yg sama. (Perghh.. intipati tu!) Lagi satu yg aku nak bagi kredit kat kedai ni dia simpan result check mata tu as reference in the future. Dats y kena register sebelum check. Sebelum balik dia bagi brochure pasal anti-fatigue lenses by essilor. Tak pnah tau pon ada lense yg macam ni. Lps godek2 internet pasal ni aku sangat la terberkenan. (Miss Optician, Good marketing strategy!) Anyone pnah dgr pasal lense ni tak?? Memang sangat ok ker???

Setelah fikir dan fikir dan discuss ngn hubby aku decide nak wat spec. Penting untuk driving kay. Pastu tatau plak nak pilih yg macam mana. Full frame, half frame or frameless??

Aku sangat berkenan ngn spec pompuan ni.. Bentuk perfect! Tapi tatau la kalo seswai ngn aku ke tak..

Gambar dari brochure essilor

Frameless cani pon admire gak. Ke sebab pompuan ni yg cun sebab tu nampak perfect je spec tu

Gambar dari essilor.com

Pape pon kna try dlu. Yg sure aku memang tak suka half frame. Look weird. Nampak macam sumthing hanging kt muka aku.

I Win Free Header..!!!

Ingat tak aku penah join contest by jiji.. (HERE)
Aku gler nyer admire jiji nyer blogspot header. Simple and slumber kay. Jiji nyer header umah baru dier kat dot com tu plak sangat2 feminine. (CHECK THIS) Yang penting simple & nice. Less is more rite???

Selepas mengalami kelaraan yg melampau semalam aku dapat gud news hari ni. Thanx dear jiji for choosing me to win this walopon bukan 1st prize. Kalo dapat 1st prize mmg terus ajak hubby pi celebrate. Akakaakak... =p

Ni 1st time aku menang blog contest. Suka ar. This prize really big and meaningful untuk aku yg x reti pape pasal blogging nih aka buta IT. Main klik sana sini jek masa decide nak blogging guna blogspot ni. Before this guna myYahoo page jek untuk blogging. Tu pon few years ago. Berzaman dah. Tengok je la blog aku ni. Guna template yg memang ada kt blogspot ni jek. Muahahaha... Time aku sangat2 limited untuk godek2 free template yg ada kt muka bumi ni.

Aku da email jiji for the spec. So juz wait and see....

Apa la prob aku nih?????

Since last saturday paler aku ni fenin ar. Pusing2... mata sebelah kanan pon cam blur jek. Aku ingat fenin biasa jek. Tapi lepas telan paracetamol tak ok2 jugak. Wat bodoh jek. Kalo lagi di layan sakit ni makin menjadi-jadi plak.

Ahad pon cmtu gk. Tak de tanda nak ok langsung. Wat bodoh gak. Sib baik aku bleh drive lagik. Bleh jalan cam besa. Cuma kadang2 tu rasa nak tumbang. The worst part is aku da mula risau pasal fenin aku yg tak hilang2 ni. Tak sabar jek tunggu kursus habis sebab nak gi check blood pressure. Well.. kita akan realize kan kalo badan kita tak well response. Or badan kita respond lain macam. Pas abes kursus terus cari kedai farmasi. Kedai farmasi kat kangar ni mungkin banyak. Tapi yg aku tau satu jek. Tapi gler nyer frust bler org kedai tu cakap diorang x der offer service check BP. Biar btol?????????? Disebabkan paler yg makin memusing2 dan vision makin blur aku balik umah terus. Hopefully after rest this prob will resolve. Dan harap2 umur aku panjang lagi sampai hari ni so dat aku leh check kt klinik aku jek. Dalam hati ni tak habis2 berdoa harap2 mmg x der pape ar kan. Tapi paler ni da fikir macam2 benda tak elok. Paling aku takut blood pressure shoot up then end up with hemorraghic stroke!! Nauzubillah... minta dijauhkan Allah sumer2 ni. Sapa nak jaga ilham nanti?????? Aku nak besarkan ilham dengan tangan aku sendiri YA ALLAH.. Izinkanlah...

Yepp.. Alhamdulillah. Allah panjangkan umur aku lagi. Hari ni aku masih bernafas. After settle few things kat KK Kangar aku terus gi klinik aku. Nyendeng2 kat nurse MCH minta diorang check blood pressure aku. 90/70 mmHg. Normal!!! Alhamdulillah.. Possibility untuk dapat hemorrhagic stroke x de. The funny thing is nurses kt MCH wat lawak plak cakap may be aku pregnant. Perghhh..!!! Jangan la.. Lagipun tengah mensus la. Mana mungkin. Aku buat blood test gak. Full blood count normal. Lega... Tapi aku wat gak test lain cam lipid profile, renal profile & liver profile. Have to wait 2-3 days to get the result. Lab klinik aku tak run test ni. Kena hantar darah pi spital. Tak pe. Sabar je la. Pastu aku jupe doc klinik aku nak minta opinion. Dier check ar mata. Dier cakap base ok. May b sumthing to do with power mata aku. So petang ni aku decide nak pi kedai spec. Kola perlis tak de kdai spec ok.. adess..

Hari ni dengan paler yg pusing2 & mood yg x baper ader (monday blues) plus hati yang sakit dn jiwa yg kacau (poyo!!), macam2 benda yg menyakitkan hati plak jadi. Masa nak load ubat dalam kete kt KK kangar ada plak sorang bro ni tempik suh ubah keta sebab ada keta len nak lalu kat situ. Wei bro.. ko ingat aku bengap sangat ke nak park tengah2 jalan. Ni aku tempik balik. Tapi dalam hati jek. Sebab bos aku ada kat situ. =p Aku hangin gler ngn bro tu. Dah la buncit. Dri*** jek pon. Memang kurang ajar la. Yang orang nak lalu tu pon x reti2 word sabar. Nangis kang kalo aku bakar kete dier. Sakit hati tak terkira masa tu. Malas nak pnjang citer ngn org buncit tu aku blah terus walopon ader lagi ubat yg aku x sempat nak amek. Pastu 2 orang pakcik ni kat situ sembang2 smbil tunjuk kat aku. Aku naik keta pastu stop depan diorang.. "Saya nak amek ubat ni pakcik" sambil tunjuk box ubat sebelah aku. Pakcik tu angguk paler dan gitau- baik2 lalu kat depan tu. Sempit jalan dier. Aku senyum je la. Psycho tak aku. Please don mess with me kay. i'll make u sorry u're born!! Muahahaha... berani gertak je ni.

Really need to talk to somebody
Really need someone to lend their ears for me
Really need a shoulder to cry on
Really need therapy for my soul
Really need somebody to inspire me
Really need a huge, wide space in my mind

Conclusion, I need spa, huge shopping complex and cinema.

WHOLE BODY MASSAGE, SHOPPING AND WATCHING MOVIES. FULL STOP.

Ilham da recover.. finally!

Da demam kena la makan ubat yer sayang...

Alhamdulilah.. akhirnya ilham sihat. Kembali menjadi kanak2 riang. Pagi tadi aku ngn hubby try letak ilham dalam walker. Wahh.. laju jek jalan. Sib baik umah sewa aku kecik jek. Dier tak leh nak panjang kaki sangat. Awal-awal dapat benda baru sonok ar kan. Tapi petang tadi ilham cam da boring. Kejap jek duduk dalam walker da bunyi2 suh angkat. Si kecik ni memang jenis cepat boring la. Susah la cani.

Masa dalam keta tadi, on the way back to PIL's house, aku layan konsert AF2.. Teringat balik zaman kat U dlu. Layan AF ngn kawan2. Ecah, fid, lina, nida, miza, diana, afni & ida. Ada lagi ke nama yg aku lupa sebut. Banyak2 AF aku suka sangat AF season 2. Dianyer participants sumer best2. Talented.. Pastu pengetua pon best. Lagu2 best. Best aje la pendek kata. Kalo panjang kata x larat dah nk citer.

Sekarang dah pukul 1.15am. Aku tak tido lagi. Si kecik ni pon tak tido lagi. Dah la esok aku kursus. Sib baik la kt sini jgk. Mahunyer tersengguk aku esok dgr ceramah. Ilham plak kena tinggal ngn PIL. Papa ilham x sanggup nk jaga ilham for the whole day. Cukup lah separuh hari ni kna ngadap ilham. Da macam pompuan kna PMS plak mama tgk papa bler mama balik dari kursus tadi. Tu pun mama blah awal gk td bler pikir pasal papa ngn ilham. Da pecut keta laju2 dah nak smpai umah. Risau ilham wat hal then papa x leh handle end up papa tensi dn x mo jaga ilham smpai bila2 dah. Kalo papa x sanggup jaga ilham kalo mama pi kursus mama yg susah. Mmg bleh tinggal ilham ngn tok. Tapi mama yg meroyan nnti rindu kt ilham. Mama mana pnah tinggal ilham berhari-hari. Tak pnah lagi la tdo malam tak de ilham.

sori la dear.. no choice la.. da byk sgt tolak pi kursus. So accept gk kursus ni sbb dekat jek. So nxt time kalo ada kursus pon leh ar nk elak2. Babysiter plak bz ngn persiapan kawen anak dier. Kalo ada maid kan senang. Usung je maid pi sana sini. Tak payah susahkan sesaper. Susahkan poket sendri jek nk bayar maid bulan2. Janji ilham sentiasa di sisi. Yer la. Cian papa. Kalo jaga ilham sumer keja papa tak jadi. Papa tak leh nak layan movie.. papa tak leh layan anime.. papa tak leh tido. =p

Hari ni papa ngaku mama ni penyelamat. Sbb ada ndek aka nenen. Dapat wat ilham tido siang lama. Padahal last 2 days papa ngaku papa penyelamat keadaan masa ilham demam. Sebab berjaya buat ilham tdo dalam baby carrier setelah ndek mama gagal memujuk ilham yg meragam. Cehh.. Mama yg baik hati malas nk cakap banyak. Sebab.. papa da byk tolong mama. Kemas rumah.. tukar lampin ilham, mandikan ilham, jaga ilham bila mama kursus. Dan mama tetap tersenyum ngn comel walopon sgt tensi bler papa membebel bler mama terlupa bwk blk alas getah ilham. Mama berpura2 slumber walopon papa membebel lagik bler mama bwk blk diapers lain tapi tak bawak blk diapers huggies. Patutnya mama cakap after this papa yg siapkan sumer barang2 ilham kay... So dat x kan ada lagik bnda ilham yg tertinggal.. =p

Sekian bebelan dari pihak mama plak. =p
Peace no war...

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Tarikh Tutup: JUMAAT 23 OCTOBER 2009

Wooooo... Gler touching!!!

copied and paste from jiji's blog..
you and your partner have to read this.. trust me.. berbaloi-baloi...!!

To All Married Couples and To All Future Couples

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; I had lost my heart to a lovely girl called Dew. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, 30% shares of my company and the car. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a months time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy.

Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset.

I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest.. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me; she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.

Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office… jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind… I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death does us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote:
‘I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart’

The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, the property, the bank balance that matters. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you, but if you do, you just might save a marriage.

Relationships are made not to exploit, not to be broken.

We teach some by what we say
We teach some more by what we do
But we teach most by what we are

You don’t get to choose how you are going to die, or when, but, you can decide how you are going to live, here and now.

By,
Unknown

yeppp... has to agree that its not easy to maintain our married life consistently. But no matter how no matter what we have to cherish it with loves and happiness alwaysssss..

MAY ALLAH BLESS OUR MARRIAGE..

P/S: contest jiji end tonite.. have to hurry.. hadiah dier best wooo..